Taking a look at a new fetish: Voyeurism

When you explore sexual desire, the world is your oyster! And if you're considering adding voyeurism to the bedroom (like 89% of respondents in a recent Cosmopolitan study), then you should know the basics before you get started. Here's the essential information on this growing fetish.

What is voyeurism?

The technical definition is the practice of obtaining sexual pleasure by observing other people when they are naked or engaged in sexual activity.

This can mean anything from watching someone masturbate, taking erotic photos, or watching a couple having sex.

But let's break it down a little further. Research shows that voyeurism is one of the most common fetishes. Furthermore, researchers at the Karolinska Institute found that voyeurs are more easily aroused, masturbate more frequently, and have sex with their partners more often.

There's a big difference between people who indulge in voyeurism with the consent of all parties and those who do so (known as Peeping Toms ) without the knowledge or consent of the people involved. That's a clear line that shouldn't be crossed, because at that point it becomes a crime.

When does it become illegal?

You should always, always, always obtain consent from all parties and communicate clearly when considering any act of intimacy, but especially voyeurism.

There is a psychiatric disorder called voyeuristic disorder , in which a person experiences sexual arousal by intentionally spying on people who are unaware they are being watched. If caught, voyeurs can face criminal charges.

There are many examples of voyeurism around the world. Would you consider going to a nude beach? Then you might enjoy voyeurism. Another common place where it appears is at the annual Mardi Gras celebration in New Orleans , when some women receive beaded necklaces for exposing their breasts.

The most important thing to remember: consent! ✅

What is the difference between a voyeur and an exhibitionist?

There is always an “observer” and an “observed,” also known as the voyeur and the exhibitionist .

• The voyeur is the person who watches, records or listens to the sexual act.

• The exhibitionist is the one who, with your consent, performs the sexual act.

According to a study conducted in Sweden, the majority of voyeurs are men, while 31% of exhibitionists were women.

How can I practice it?

Although you might think voyeurism is just spying with binoculars, there are actually many safe and consensual ways to incorporate it into intimacy. Some ideas include:

• Watching or recording your partner while masturbating.
• Role-playing where one person is a voyeur and the other an exhibitionist.
• Use a remote-controlled toy and enjoy watching your partner receive pleasure from across the room.
• Watching your partner perform sexual acts with another person (with consent).
• Taking erotic photographs.
• Listen to erotic podcasts.
• Watch voyeuristic pornography.

Discover how voyeurism can give you a new perspective on your sex life today! 🔥👀

Author: Tori Tromblay | Pure Romance