Backdoor Happiness: More and More Americans Are Trying Anal Sex
Turn on the TV and you're more likely to see characters talking or even enjoying backdoor pleasure. "Girls," "The Mindy Project," and "Sex and the City" have all featured scenes with people talking about or enjoying anal sex. It's hard to imagine there was a time when writers couldn't even say the word "pregnancy" in "I Love Lucy."
The rules are much more flexible these days, which means more people are talking and learning about sexual taboos . And those taboos… are becoming more common. You might be surprised (or already know) thatone in three heterosexual women has tried anal sex at some point. The study digs deeper and finds that women in their twenties with no religious affiliation and with higher incomes and education are the most likely to try anal sex.
While it's still unknown why more women are trying or admitting to having tried anal sex, the data is clear. More and more people are interested in exploring a new type of sexual pleasure and want to see if they can find happiness through the back door.
Here are some tips and toys for beginners to try while exploring.
Tips for the First Time
If you're nervous about trying something new, we've got you covered! Check out the suggestions below before venturing into something new.
Communicate
Your partner may have been asking for it for a while, or you may just be curious. The best advice we can give you is to communicate before trying anything new in bed. Agree and discuss a safe word to use if either of you starts to feel uncomfortable.
Get ready
Preparation is key to a fun and relaxing experience. An essential ingredient for a good time: silicone-based lubricant that absorbs quickly into the skin. Pure Pleasure is a must-have for anal sex because, unlike the vagina, the anus doesn't self-lubricate. Still nervous? Calm your mind and your butt with Booty Eaze , a soothing gel with a relaxing, non-drowsy formula.
Take your time
Foreplay is always important, but especially now. Start with gentle caresses and kisses and work your way up. Communication doesn't end when the fun begins. Keep talking and making sure you're both comfortable. It may take a couple of minutes to get used to the new sensations. Embrace the slow movements and enjoy!
Maintain good hygiene
Wash before and after anal sex. Also, never switch from anal to vaginal sex, as this can spread bacteria and cause infections.
Toys to try
Toys are a popular way to get started with anal sex. One study found that more than half of those who tried anal sex used toys. Let's look at some toys you can add to your collection.
Cast your spell with Mesmerize, an erotic anal massager with seven speeds and pulsation patterns. This silky silicone vibrator has a flexible, tapered shaft designed to move with your body. Plus, its flared base makes insertion and removal easy.
Now you're ready to take a walk on the wild side and explore new sensations and pleasure.
Author: Tori Tromblay / Pure Romance