The Answers to Your Questions About SQUIRTING

Squirting is a hot topic. Many of you may have questions, and while we don't have all the answers, the medical and research community has some evidence that seeks to explain this phenomenon, which sexuality educators have been debating for some time. Here are some Frequently Asked Questions for your viewing pleasure.

Q: What happens during female squirting ?

A: According to a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine , some women release fluid from their urethra. This is known as "squirting," or an orgasm with the release of fluid in the form of a "squirt." Scientists investigated this phenomenon among seven women who reported releasing copious amounts of fluid during sexual intercourse. In that study, the participants voluntarily emptied their bladders (urinated) and then underwent ultrasound scans before, during, and after sexual arousal. The results showed that before sexual arousal, their bladders were empty. During orgasm, just before squirting , there was evidence that the bladder was filling. After squirting , the participants' bladders were empty again.

Note: While this study is extremely useful in gaining insight into what happens during squirting , the sample size was very small. Often in the research community, a large sample size is needed to ensure that what is being observed is true and not a fluke. In this study, only seven women were included, and that could be for a variety of reasons. For example, while women (or anyone with a vagina) do experience squirting orgasms , or squirts , they may not have wanted to participate in this type of study. Future studies on the body will help provide more data on squirting .

Q: Am I squirting or urinating?

A: The evidence provided by the aforementioned study indicates that squirting is the result of an involuntary release of fluid from the bladder during sexual activity. In some cases, fluid is released from the Skene glands. The Skene glands produce and secrete fluids that help lubricate the opening of the urethra. This fluid helps with lubrication during sexual activity, and a larger amount may be released during orgasm. This phenomenon is also known as "female ejaculation."

Q: Is squirting the same as ejaculation ("cumming")?

A: Another study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine shows that squirting and what researchers call "female ejaculation" are two different experiences. This study indicates that squirting is the result of a massive increase in fluid being released from the bladder. The results also show that female ejaculation is the release of a thick, whitish fluid from the Skene glands.

In essence, there is insufficient evidence to conclude whether squirting is urine coming from the bladder or fluid from the Skene glands. Some women may secrete a combination of both fluids. Others may secrete one or the other. Keep in mind that the Skene glands are located on the sides of the urethra. Therefore, it is almost impossible to determine where the fluid is coming from except under direct observation.

Q: Am I normal if I don't squirt or ejaculate during an orgasm?

A: Of course! Although some women (or people with vaginas) may release fluids during sexual arousal and orgasm, it all depends on the individual and their body. Fluid release is not a typical part of a female orgasm. Orgasms involve a rapid heart rate, rapid breathing, and muscle spasms throughout the body (often in the vagina, uterus, anus, and pelvic floor).

The bottom line is this: Whether you squirt or not, sexual activity is meant to be pleasurable. You shouldn't be embarrassed if your body expels fluids. If your body doesn't, don't feel deprived in this area.

Remember, squirting and ejaculation occur involuntarily due to a variety of factors. If your goal is to have pleasurable sexual experiences, focus on learning and understanding the importance of pleasure to you. If you have a partner, talk about pleasure together.