The 5 biggest mistakes when performing oral sex
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The art of fellatio may be revolutionary in the bedroom, but let's face it: without our own penis, we don't know what feels good and what doesn't.
We're here to turn those awkward moments into an unforgettable experience. According to the guys we asked, these are the five most common mistakes women make when performing oral sex, and what to do next time.
The mistake: Skipping the warm-ups and going straight for it.
The solution: Fan the flames! Tease him a little. Kiss and lick his thighs, playfully (and gently) massage his balls. While you're down there, start telling him all the naughty things you want to do to him and how much you want him in your mouth.
Go up slowly, just using your hot breath to let him know you know where to go... but it's not time yet. The more you tease him, the more aroused he'll get. (Spoiler alert: this might speed things up; he'll be ready to explode before you even start.)
The Mistake: Not using your hands and relying only on your mouth.
The Solution: Use your hands. We'll repeat for those behind you: USE YOUR HANDS! With one hand, caress the base of his member or massage his testicles while your mouth takes care of the rest. Give it a little twist or use both hands for a double-pleasure experience. Don't be afraid to vary the techniques; use your mouth to squeeze him a little harder as you go up and down. The thrill of the unknown will push him to the limit.
The Mistake: Closing your eyes all the time. Eye contact is arousing.
The Solution: Check on him from time to time to see his reactions and let him know how much you're enjoying it. It creates a connection that's more exciting than anything else you're doing. He'll get even more aroused knowing you're doing it too!
The Mistake: Playing it safe with gentle touches and minimal pressure.
The Solution: Don't be afraid to apply a little more pressure. Use your lips and tongue firmly, and don't forget the glans. Sucking gently but firmly can drive him wild. If he likes it harder, don't be afraid to give it to him (within reason, of course!).
Communication is key: listen to his moans and adapt. Every man has a different sensitivity; make sure you get to know his body the same way you want him to get to know yours. Don't be afraid to ask him what he likes; he has the penis, you don't. Tell him you want him to tell you EXACTLY what he wants.
The Mistake: Dry Oral Sex .
The Solution: Wet it. It doesn't have to be too wet, but something that allows for a smooth, fluid glide. Not only does it help with the gag reflex, but it also reduces unnecessary friction during oral sex. Sure, you can spit on it, but why? There are tons of lubes with amazing flavors that taste amazing and make the moment even more pleasurable!
Extra tips the kids wanted us to include:
- Vary your techniques: Don't stick to just one motion. Alternate between licking, sucking, and stroking to make the experience more unpredictable.
- Don't forget the testicles : Show them affection. Caress, lick, or suck them gently to arouse him before and during the experience.
- Take a break : Take advantage of breaks to kiss him or whisper something dirty in his ear. It will make the experience more exciting.