
Sensual? Kinky? Shapeshifter? Discover your erotic archetype
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If there's one thing you need to be clear about, it's your sexual plan.
A sexual blueprint is an arousal map based on your primary sexual style, including the types of pleasure you enjoy, what turns you on, what turns you off, and, most importantly, what can lead to orgasm. With every sexual blueprint, there are ways to thrive and there are shadows. Shadows are the negative aspects of a blueprint that block your access to pleasure through beliefs, judgments, and feelings. Wondering what your sexual blueprint is? Let's find out.
Sensual
Exploring all your senses during intimacy turns you on. This includes romantic music, aphrodisiacs, and sensually scented candles. Heat play will turn you on like no other. Introduce a massage candle or a heated toy into the room to stimulate your blood flow. Sometimes, it's all about shutting off your senses. A blindfold is perfect for depriving one sense while enhancing the others. In short, it's all about the vibe.
Sensual Shade : If something doesn't fit the mood for the sensual plan, the whole night will be off. Lights out? It takes away your vibe! Unpleasant smell? No sex for you tonight. Ambience is key.
Energy
It's anticipation that makes you tick. You love being desired, teased, and pursued. You tend to read romance novels with lots of excitement and provocation. If you're buzzing with sexual tension right before your first kiss, you might be the energetic type. I'm not talking about that nervous feeling in your stomach. I'm talking about that tingly feeling that makes you turn a first kiss into something a little more intense (if you know what I mean). You pick up on other people's energies and are often deeply intuitive, which leads to deeper sexual connections and, in turn, intense, mind-blowing, and earth-shattering orgasms. Congratulations!
Energy shadow : Focus on your breathing. Energetic types tend to get anxious, overwhelmed, and stuck if things move too quickly. Remember to breathe, take your relationship one day at a time, and try not to rush things.
Sexual
You can be quite literal, and that's not a bad thing. You're passionate about the ins and outs of sex (pun intended). Like millions of others, you're turned on by porn, perhaps have a soft spot for voyeurism, and are passionate about anything related to nudity, genitals, orgasm, and penetration. You're turned on by the simple idea of sex. When the average person thinks about sex 10 to 19 times a day , you're turned on—and very turned on. People appreciate your simplicity in sex. It's direct, pure, and uncomplicated.
Sexual Shadow : Your sex life may be very genital-oriented. Orgasm is your primary goal, which can lead you to miss out on key elements of intimacy with your partner. If your partner mentions wanting more in bed, be open to that. It's not all about the orgasm.
Kinky
Taboo is your middle name. You're primarily turned on by activities outside the social norms of sex. You say, "Screw social norms!" You tend to lean toward fantasy and creativity when it comes to your sexual style. Comfort zones are only a suggestion, and you're ready to push your personal boundaries . It's important to have a partner who supports kink and is open to adventurous play. Go with your fetishes and don't let social norms dictate your pleasure.
Kinky Shadow: What turns you on is taboo, and you may feel ashamed about it. Shame can also be part of your arousal if it's something you enjoy. Shame happens. Just make sure it doesn't prevent you from fully enjoying the pleasure.
Metamorph
You are truly unique, especially because you're turned on by a million things. Sensual, sexual, kinky, or energetic? You're all types rolled into one. Thanks to your versatility, it's important to build a solid sexual toolbox, full of toys, outfits, and instruments designed to amp up your game. Make a bucket list: Write down every single thing, no matter how small, that gets your motor going and get to work. The best part about being a shapeshifter? You transform into an incredible lover for any partner. This can lead to pleasing others, which isn't a bad thing! Just make sure it doesn't consume your life.
Shapeshifter Shadow: As you experience all the sexual interests of the sexual blueprints , you also experience all their shadows. You may feel like you're "too much" for your partners. You have a hunger that's never fully satisfied. This can be challenging, but with patience and an understanding partner, anything is possible.
Sexual blueprints are like your erotic personality type. Learning how you're sexually designed and what your limits are will help you create positive and satisfying sexual experiences for yourself and your partners. When we understand our own needs, desires, and limits, we experience more free and fulfilling pleasure.
Author: Vivien Fisher | Pure Romance