Your Guide to Bedroom Bondage

Virgin or veteran, there's a bondage level for everyone! Read on for tips to help you start exploring or take your season even further.

Sometimes the "bow chicka wow wow" can fall by the wayside when you're in a serious relationship and have to watch an entire season of "Orange is the New Black." Let's face it, it's something that happens to many couples at some point, and sometimes you have to shake up (or tie down) the same old thing to keep the spark alive. In a word? Bondage.

That's right, channeling a little Christian Grey in the bedroom never hurt anyone (unless that's what you're into). How you begin your bondage adventures is entirely up to you; you just need a little gear to make it happen. While bondage accessories can cost thousands of dollars, for you and your partner, inexpensive restraints and blindfolds can break the ice and get you in the mood.

No matter what level of exploration you're looking for, we share tips to help you get started in bondage or take it to the next level. Discover our overview of bondage for beginners and advanced users.

Gentle Bondage for Beginners

You've never tried bondage before, but you think it might be just what you need. Many people are turned on by restraint, whether it's the person being restrained or their partner.

• Restraints : While rope can be used to restrain your partner, it can cause chafing, burns, and cut off circulation to hands and feet if used by an inexperienced person. However, there are a variety of restraints designed for safe and comfortable play. (Or at least as comfortable as you want!) Try the Bed, Bondage, and Beyond soft restraint system, which slips under your mattress, or go for the classic handcuff- over-the-bedpost technique.
• Blindfolds : The sensation of being blindfolded can add a whole new level of excitement to your bondage play, especially when combined with restraints (i.e., you can't take off the blindfold!). When this happens, your senses are triggered to compensate, which means you may feel extra sensitive! If you're the one doing the restraining, it can be exciting to turn your partner on when they can't see what you're doing. Start with the Onyx Blindfold or try our Bondage Bar.

Advanced Bondage for next-level play

• Nipple Clamps : If you and your partner agree you want to try something more intense, there are restraint options beyond simple straps and ties. Nipple clamps are exactly what they sound like: they clamp the nipples of the bound person, causing everything from pleasure to pain, depending on the level you both want to reach. The Onyx Nipple Clamps are just what you and your partner need to make it happen.
• Whips and Crops: Want to shock your partner? This is the way to do it! Make bondage hurt like crazy with Hits The Spot , then go for a softer side of pain with this tantalizing tickler and whip combo. 

Just because you're turned on by the idea of ​​bondage doesn't mean you'll love it in practice. The only way to find out is to try it yourself. Start with simple, light restraints during passionate encounters with your partner, then move on to blindfolds, nipple clamps, and more, depending on your pleasure and comfort level. Remember: whenever you try something new in the bedroom, it's crucial to maintain open communication between you and your partner, especially with bondage. Use a safe word to ensure comfort is maintained throughout play.

Oh, and one more thing: don't be surprised if they suddenly fall behind on Netflix programming.

By Pure Romance